Red words Warning Gaslighting detected

On 9 February 2020 we reported the result of an ‘independent’ report on Southern Health NHS Foundation Trust under the headline:

Truly deplorable and unacceptable saga

In his report (here) Mr Nigel Pascoe QC recommended a two-part Public Investigation –firstly into the death of one patient and secondly into the Trust’s current performance in limited respects.

It pains us to report that, despite the families struggling for almost 12 months to negotiate Terms of Reference (“TORs”) and Procedures with Ruth May, Chief Nursing Officer for England (“CNO”, also a director of NHSE/I) and Mr Pascoe, they refused to listen.

Describing the investigation as a charade, the families allege that they had been misled, misrepresented, gaslighted and bullied. The full, unabridged Family Statement is here→.

Read and weep – CRASH has known these families since 2016. They have been struggling for justice for up to 10 years and have been brutally shut down at every stage.

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We have known of this for over a week but, from experience, it is more effective to give national media ‘first dibs’, not scoop them!

It also make life easier for us. Readers can just follow these useful links:


BBC NATIONAL – ‘Southern Health: Bereaved families ‘gaslighted and bullied‘ by NHS by Michael Buchanan, who has doggedly followed the story since 2016. In addition, BBC South Today has covered the “Charade” already on two separate occasions, fronted by the excellent James Ingham, who reported on the Inquest into the death of Ellie Brabant. It’s was also on BBC radio and even CEEFAX.    

‘NURSING TIMES’ – ‘Families ‘lost all trust’ in inquiry commissioned by CNO‘: a fearless article considering it relates to the Chief Nursing Officer for England, Ruth May. 

FREE ACCESS: you can register for a week’s free access to ‘Nursing Times‘: that way you can see the hurtful comments made about the families too, especially by NHSE/I (family blame) and (to a lesser extent), Southern Health’s Medical Director, Dr Karl Marlowe

TWITTER©: there is considerable activity in the Twittersphere too: follow the links on the names, (You can access these threads without registering with Twitter©).     

  • Rebecca Thomas – senior reporter, Health Service Journal (“HSJ”). 
  • George Juliantireless supporter of improvements for those with learning difficulties, who we first met in 2016 as supporter of Dr Sara Ryan.a mother of ‘Laughing Boy’. Starting with a recap of the Connor Sparrowhawk case, this is a long thread but well worth a read. WELL DONE George!
  • Alison Moore – another HSJ reporter scroll down the page to 3 February 2021.
  • Dr Sara Ryan – mother of ‘Laughing Boy‘ – Sara has been twittering for a long time (111.9K Tweets + so, as they are in reverse date order, here’s her first reaction:  

    Sara's Tweet (reduced)

    Well done Ruth May and Southern Health – you’ve even succeeded upsetting a bereaved family, who’s not even involved in this investigation. 

The TORs and Procedures for the Public Investigation are available here if service users, carers and families wish to participate. Beware of the tight deadlines; restrictions on what you can say; and practical and technical requirements. We do not wish to see families and service users drawn into what appears to be a virtue signalling exercise.

If having read this post, the TORs and the procedures, you wish to express your views on the process. You can email Ruth May here and Mr Pascoe QC here, as well as leaving comments below.

In memoriam:

Edward Hartley and Connor Sparrowhawk, two much-loved young men lost far too early:

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Edward      © Ian Hartley



Connor © Dr Sara Ryan


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